Monday, November 5, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is Arturo's birthday.
Arturo is one of the dorm leaders at the BLC and one of the most amazing men I know. He also has a gorgeous family with his wife Claudia, son Pablo, and daughter Camilla. A common question among the older boys at the BLC, "how do I grow up to be a man like Arturo?" I think this is a good question for any male to ask!
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS HERMANO ARTURO!!!!

Saturday, November 3, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is Roberto L's 13th birthday.
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS ROBERTO!!!!

Monday, October 29, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is William's 9th birthday.
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS WILLIAM!!!!

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is Jhosmar's 7th birthday.
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS JHOSMAR!!!!

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is Jesus' 7th birthday.
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS JESUS!!!!

Friday, October 19, 2007

Bolivia's Abandoned Children

(This article was taken from the BBC News website.)

By Lola Almudevar BBC News, Bolivia

In Bolivia, a weak economy and a shortage of jobs means some parents are moving abroad to find work and earn money for their families. But, in many cases, their children are being left behind with no one to care for them.

There are telephone shops all over Bolivia, places where people - often too poor to have a phone of their own - go to make their calls. They are full of rickety plastic booths and are abuzz with the sound of locals calling long distance.

The parents of these children work abroad or in another part of Bolivia. Frequently, they are calling the people who clean houses, look after other people's children, pick fruit, and work on construction sites in countries like Spain, Italy, Argentina and Britain. These migrant workers are the fathers or mothers of youngsters like Carlita. Her mother left their home in Santa Cruz a year ago and now works as a domestic servant in Madrid. "She is going to send for me as soon as I turn 18," Carlita says as she leads me towards her home along a dusty path where bin liners blow in the warm breeze. Carlita, who is 17, seems a typical teenage girl with a shy, awkward smile. But her childhood ended some time ago.

Domestic abuse

Until recently she lived with her grandmother and aunt who promised to take care of her. But it seems what they cared for most was the cash her mother sent from Spain each month. Carlita felt ignored, began to fight with her aunt, and before long the rows became violent. When Carlita telephoned her mother to tell her she wanted to leave, her aunt feared the remittances would be lost. Her reaction was to beat Carlita until she was black and blue, and could hardly move. "She used a belt," Carlita tells me, glancing towards the psychologist who is here to check on her progress and is sitting in on our interview. "I do not know where I found the strength to defend myself, because I did defend myself. But I know that if I had been younger and smaller, I would not have been able to put up a fight," she says.

Abandoned

Carlita now sleeps on the floor in another aunt's ramshackle house. There are 17 children staying here, many of whom have a parent working abroad or in another part of Bolivia. The scene is nothing unusual for psychologist, Carlos Perez, who sits on a broken chair in the yard. He sees cases like Carlita's all the time. But normally the children are younger and the maltreatment more severe. "The mother leaves and the child is effectively left in the care of no-one," he says. "They show signs of neglect and become rebellious. It is tremendously frequent and it is creating a generation of children who do not know how to behave in society." Carlita is old enough for her experience not to have too much lasting impact on her character. Others are less fortunate, with many suffering irreparable psychological damage or falling into drugs and delinquency.

When we get back to the justice centre where Carlos works, he is immediately bombarded by people who want his help. Although he seems to respond completely professionally, his frown shows that he feels tense and beleaguered. "There are babies just one or two months old who are being left behind," he says. "And when their mothers come back they can not recognise them. One boy told me 'I don't want these shoes or clothes I have been given. I want my mother here to comb my hair and bathe me and tell me a story'."

The psychologist is clearly troubled.

A better future?

The Bolivian government's answer is to try to strengthen the economy and create jobs so that people will stay here to earn money for their families rather than go abroad. They want to create more than 360,000 jobs by 2010. But those jobs, if they do come, will come too late for the generation to which Carlita belongs. And as Juan Ramon Quintana, a high-ranking government minister, tells me, you can not blame people for wanting to find a better future. It is their right. "Migration is a world phenomenon, caused by globalisation - it is up to us to contain the social consequences in the countries of origin," he says.

I board an early morning bus to leave Santa Cruz and watch as vendors scramble on board at each stop. They sell fizzy drinks, chicken, ice cream, lollipops, chewing gum, whatever they can lay their hands on. Their earnings are pitiful, but in a country where jobs are scarce, you do whatever you can to survive. I remember Carlos's final words to me.

"Behind so many immigrants in your country, are stories like Carlita's. Behind their lives over there are all of these children left alone here."

As my bus heads off into the countryside, I reflect on the sad reality that until there are dignified jobs for Bolivians in Bolivia, many children will follow the same path as Carlita: growing up for them will be a very lonely road.

From Our Own Correspondent was broadcast on Thursday 18 October, 2007 at 1100 BST on BBC Radio 4.

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Birthday Time

Today is Luis' 10th birthday.
FELIZ CUMPLEAÑOS LUIS!!!!

Friday, July 20, 2007

Lucho Leche, Week 6

Luis Fernando has managed to become one of my favorite boys. I know that I say that about most if not all of the boys, but Lucho has maintained this title more steadily than most. This week I have watched him bond very tightly to one of the team members. I have to confess to a smidge of jealousy, but one glance of that mischievous smile chases it away. Lucho is a natural leader. He is the best mediano dancer of Vida Vida and he calls out the steps to anyone falling behind. The other day he rode in the front of the bus and talked to Richard, our driver, most of the way. Even though Richard has driven us the same routes for several weeks now, Lucho gave him directions as we drove, pointing out which traffic lights didn't work, when it was clear, where to turn, and drilling Richard on anything he did outside of his explicit directions. It was adorable.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Young Missionary, Week 5

My organized, task-oriented side thinks that having children on a missions team must be a nightmare. Special airfare, picky eaters, early bed times, messy work projects, walking slow…and then I stand here looking down at all of the paint dripped on the sidewalk by the adults, and I look up at the 4 year old running tirelessly with his Bolivian peers, I watch the older boys sit on the stairs and read him books in Spanish, I watch all of the boys with their eyes glued on him as he runs to his father's side after being called for. Will this 4 year old ever know the example he set by befriending these boys, giving away his Hot Wheels, and completely trusting and loving his father? That rational part of me never would have expected a 4 year old to be such a life changing missionary to so many. But now I've seen it with my own eyes.

Friday, July 6, 2007

Joy in Service, Week 4

What a fun week! This is the first "repeat" team that I have ever experienced. This group was here last year with me too. It was so nice to pick up familiar faces at the airport. And as much as I love new Bolivia stories, it was a nice change to have stories that we had shared. This group has the most servant oriented spirit that I have ever seen. At the same time they have enough drive to immediately meet the needs that they identify. The next group is from their church as well and they are daily calling home with lists of things to bring to meet needs and finish projects. What a beautiful example of how the body of Christ ought to work!! "If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it" (1 Corinthians 12:26). If the mouth needs a napkin, and the hand is sitting in the lap holding one, wouldn't you expect it to move and give what it had? If it didn't, wouldn't you know that something was wrong?